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5 Secrets of Motivated People

 

The Abundance Project

 

You’re familiar with the situation: You’ve just finished celebrating a wonderful holiday season, you’ve spent precious time with friends and loved ones, and you’ve laid out your goals for the upcoming year. Everything goes according to plan in January, but once mid-February hits, you lose your focus, you begin slumping back into old habits, and before you know it, all that motivation you had on New Years Day is nothing more than a distant memory.

Truth be told, it’s not difficult to be motivated at the beginning of a new year, but it is a challenge to stay motivated throughout the year. However, there are select individuals that manage to maintain their motivation throughout the year and accomplish amazing feats in their lives. So, at the beginning of a new year (2016), we’ve decided to let you in on 5 secrets that motivated people use to stay on track with their goals through New Years and beyond. Pay close attention if you want to make this year your most successful year yet!

#1: Plan for Bumps in the Road

If you make a plan without anticipating bumps in the road, then you’re just setting yourself up for failure down the road. If you truly want to keep your motivation level high throughout the year, you need to write out a list of “if” “then” statements that can be used when something negative happens in your life. For example, if the weather is poor for a week and you can’t ride your bike outside like you’ve planned, come up with an alternative option using “if” “then” statements. If you do this you’ll still stay on track to your goals and you won’t slip into the danger zone of giving up altogether. If you plan for the road bumps, you’ll be better prepared to overcome them and move forward with your goals.

#2: Use Positive Affirmations and Self-Talk

Research has proven over and over again that people that truly believe they can accomplish their goals are significantly more likely to achieve them compared to those who don’t. One great way to keep your motivation and confidence high is to speak positive affirmations out loud each day. You don’t have to use the same affirmations every day, but they do need to be positive. Speak about your talents, your motivation, and how you will never give up. As you stick to this habit of speaking positive affirmations and engaging in positive self-talk, you will notice that your motivation will stay high as a result.

#3: Be Public About Your Goals

There is nothing wrong with having private goals, but sometimes it helps if you make your goals public. Going public with your goals will make you accountable to others, instead of just to yourself. If you want to lose weight for example, announce on Facebook that you are planning to lose x amount of pounds by the end of the year. Keep people up to date on your progress by creating a blog or posting periodically on social media. Doing this will keep you motivated, because not only will you continually be reminding yourself of your goal, but you also won’t want to disappoint everyone else.

#4: Be Realistic About Your Goals

If you make your goals too ambitious, you are setting yourself up for failure. The key to achieving goals is to make progress. This year you may start out with a few smaller goals, but then you may move on to a loftier goal next year. If you try to do everything at once however, you’ll only make it harder on yourself when you don’t meet your own expectations. The easiest way to avoid that is to be reasonable with your goals. Sit down and evaluate where you are currently at in your life, and what changes you can reasonably expect to make in the next year. Then outline the goals you’d like to achieve years down the road and make a plan to get there. When you make reasonable goals it will help you stay motivated throughout the year.

#5: Have a Support Network in Place

For this one, begin by creating a list of all the people in your life who support you the most. Your list can include friends, family, romantic partners, colleagues, and mentors. Make sure you choose individuals who know how badly you want to achieve your goals, and also who have seen you fail to achieve some goals in the past. If you choose people that have been with you through thick and thin, you will be more likely to stay motivated because they will know what to say to help you get through the tough times.

 

Your Vision of the future, lies from within
Gray Lawrence
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(UW) The greatest freedom is to be responsible. -Lazaris

How to make YOUR DREAMS come TRUE

From Rhonda Byrne The Secret & The Power

How can you make a big dream come true?  You need to have one secret element, and when you have that secret element, nothing will get in your way. That element is an intense desire! You must desire something with all of your heart to manifest it. Often the difference between those who manifest something and those who do not, is the element of desire. When you have a burning desire for something you ignite a fire within you that attracts with an incredible force. The law of attraction is magnetically drawn to that intense fire element in you, and it responds by gathering all universal forces to make your dream come true.  

Very often we ask for things because we think our life will be better with those things, but inside of us we do not have an immense desire for those things. When you don’t feel that immense desire within you, you are receiving guidance telling you that this is not something you really want. That is why it is so important to get clear on what it is that you really want with all of your heart, because what you really want with all of your heart is the very desire that you can manifest quickly. 

When your heart is on fire with desire you will attract the right things to do, you will find visualizing so easy, and you will find it is effortless to think positive thoughts of your desire. You will attract all the qualities you need, such as strength, courage, belief, persistence, faith, and a powerful will. An intense desire lights up your being, producing a magnetic force that enables the law of attraction to cut through every physical obstacle for you and make your dream come true.   

Go for your dreams! Don’t cheat yourself in your life with petty desires because you don’t think you can live your dream. THE DREAM inside you is the one thing that you have the greatest power to create, because you have an immense desire for it. Find the dream inside you – and make it come true Rhonda Byrne The Secret

You are a vast, brilliant, extending, creative energy field that exploded out of the Heart of the One and delighting in its journey home. -Bartholamew

Your Vision of the future, lies from within
Gray Lawrence
Successful Networker

The Greatest leaders of the world were men and women of quick decision -Napoleon Hill

The Seven Secrets of Leadership

The message is clear but with my added PMA messages and picture.

Leadership lesson 8 stand guard at the door of your mind

7 Secrets I Learnt From The Leadership Pill by Ken Blanchard

1. Leadership is not just what happens when you are there. It’s what happens when you are not there.

This is a very useful distinction and should become an outcome for anyone who wants to lead. Team that functions even if the leader is not around is something unique and requires a different level of skills. The next points will give couple of ideas how to get there. A great leader builds their people. The better your people, the more free time you have.

2. Profit is the applause you get for taking care of your customers and creating a motivating environment for people.

Isn’t it an interesting twist in perception and sequence? There are so many organisations that do exactly opposite. This model helps to remove from constantly focusing on just getting a quick financial gain that looks good in a short term, but on the other hand it can strongly damage the two most important parts of your organisations: your customers and your team.

3. Leadership is not something you do to people, it is something you do with them.

Simple but powerful truth. If you are setting off for a team leading journey, remember to take your team with you. Communicate and involve. Simple but also so often forgotten.

4. The key to effective leadership is the relationship you build with your team.

An extension from the previous points. The relationship you build with your team should be the way how you judge your success as a leader.

5. Sharing the big picture puts everyone on the same page.

Effective communication will always be the key leadership skill while building a team. A clear vision gives the strong sense of direction, or even a sense of excitement and a powerful drive, if properly communicated.

6. You will go a lot further if you stop to refuel.

That is something I must admit I have been guilty of. It is so crucially important to pause, relax and change your perception with different activities, different people. So take time for sport, short trips, dancing, reading watching movies, hiking etc. If you are scoring and winning take time to celebrate, if you are missing your target and not really getting what you want, find time to reflect and get some distance to gain new perspective. Albert Einstein put it nicely: “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them”

7. The highest achievement of a leader is winning respect and trust of your team.

Again, I love what Ken Blanchard is doing here. Measure your success of leadership not by financial numbers but trust and respect. These two ingredients will lay a solid foundation that will be a springboard for long lasting financial results.

Hope these 7 nuggets from Ken Blanchard take your leadership skills to the max!
Here’s To Your Success

From The Secret Daily Teachings

Remember to remember means remember to be aware. Remember to be aware in this moment right now. Being aware is seeing everything around you, hearing everything around you, feeling everything around you, and being completely focused on what you are doing right now.
Most people bring what they do not want because they are not aware that they are listening to the thoughts in their heads about the past and the future. They are not even aware that they are being hypnotized by those thoughts, and are therefore living their life unconsciously.
When you remember to be aware, you are aware immediately. You just have to remember to remember!  May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

Gray Lawrence Successful Networker

Opportunities are never lost. . .They are found by someone else!”

– Mike Mc Donald

“Points of Power” (II)

These books by Rhonda Byrne have been a brilliant insight to the world and I always use and read them among others..Also click the link and gain more into your life…  Enjoy as nothing needs to be added from the book passages From  “The Power & The Secret”

http://www.thesecret.tv/

There are thirteen passages I have for you this is the first (II) 

· How you feel in any one moment is more important than anything else, because how you feel right now is creating your life.

· Your feelings are the power of your thoughts and words. It’s what you feel that maters!

· All good feelings come from love! All negative feelings come from a lack of love.

· Every good feeling unites you with the force of love. Because love is the source of all good feelings.

· Amplify your good feelings by thinking about all the things you love. Count the things you love nonstop one after the other. Keep listings everything you love until you feel amazing

· How you feel about each subject in your life is an exact reflection of what you have been giving out on each subject

· Life isn’t happening to you – Life is responding to you! Every subject of your life is your call and you make the call on everything in life by what you give.

· There are infinite levels of good feelings you can feel, which means there is no end to the heights of life you can receive.

· All the things you love want you! Dollars want you. Health wants you. Happiness wants you.

· Don’t struggle to change the circumstances of your life. Give love through your good feelings and what you want will appear.

· You have to give good feelings first. You have to be happy first, and give happiness, to receive happy things! Whatever you want to receive in life, you must give first.

Happiness is a state of being, and comes from the inside of you. By the law of attraction you must become on the inside what you want on the outside. You are either choosing to be happy now, or you are making up excuses for not choosing to be happy. But there are no excuses for the law! May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt

Gray Lawrence Successful Networker

“Life is the sum of all your choices” Albert Camus

 

“Points of Power The Secret” (I)

These books by Rhonda Byrne have been a brilliant insight to the world and I always use and read them among others..Also click the link and gain more into your life…  Enjoy as nothing needs to be added from the book passages From Rhonda Byrne  “The Power & The Secret”

http://www.thesecret.tv/

There are thirteen passages I have for you this is the first (I) 

  •  Love is not weak, feeble or soft. Love is the positive force of life! Love is the cause of everything positive and good.
  • · Everything you want to be, do, or have comes from love
  • · The positive force of love can create anything good, Increase the good things, and change anything negative in your life
  • · Every day, in every moment, you make the choice whether to love and harness the positive force – or not
  • · The law of attraction is the law of love, and it is the law that is operating in your life
  • · Whatever you give out in life is what you will receive back positively: give negativity. You receive back negativity
  • · Life doesn’t happen to you; you receive everything in your life based on what you’ve given
  • · Whether your thoughts and feelings are good or bad, they return as automatically and precisely as an echo
  • · People who have great lives think and talk about what they love more than what they don’t love!
  • · Talk about the good news of the day. Talk about what you love. And bring what you love to you
  • · You have an unlimited ability to think and talk about what you love. And so you have an unlimited ability to bring everything good in your life to you· Love, because when you love you are using the greatest power in the universe.

 

I hope you enjoyed reading the first passage, I know I did and still do..

Love is the highest power we possess to be in complete harmony with the law of attraction. The more love we feel the greater our power. The more selfless love we feel, the more unfathomable our power.

The law of attraction has been called the law of love, because the law itself is a gift of love to humanity. It is the law by which we can create incredible lives for ourselves.

The more love we feel the greater our power to create a magnificent life of love, joy, and harmony.

May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

The Power is from within, the choice is yours
Gray Lawrence
Successful Networker

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” Nido Qubein

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