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Dare to be different Stephen C Thomas

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Attitude
Success comes to those who become success-conscious. Failure comes to those who indifferently allow themselves to become failure-conscious. – Napoleon Hill

Do you want a life change, but you also want to be like everybody else? I am here to tell you that I don’t think it will work very well. If you want true life change, you have to dare to be different.

People will think I’m weird!

They might. One of the things that stops most people from changing their lives is that they are afraid someone will make fun of them, criticize them. It is a possibility, but probably not as big as you think. Many people will admire you for having the courage to be different.

When I was in high school, I remember a new kid coming to school in our senior year, a time when it was most important to fit in. John was a strange kid. He didn’t really fit into any of the cliques and he was friendly to everyone. He made no attempt to change who he was in order to fit in.

Just about everyone admired and liked John. Several people started acting like him. He became one of the most popular kids in school.

Some people might think you are weird, but many will admire you and wish they had the nerve to be different.

You might. Your friends might think that you have gone over to the dark side or something. They might think that you have started taking drugs or that you have become mentally unstable. Most likely, they will be intimidated by your change and your courage to be different. They may make noises like they think you are strange, but in reality, they will be jealous.

The question I have for you is this. Do you want to disappear into who your friends think you should be, or do you want to be the person you long to be, dream of being? If these are really your friends they will understand.

I won’t know how to act!

Who cares? You are doing this so that you can change your life, change who you are. You are not doing it so that you can remain the same. It will take some getting used to, but you will find your way.

Learning to be the new you, the one who dares to be different, may take some time, but you will find that if you accept it, it will soon become fun. You will find new ways of being, new ways of behaving that are more fun than the old ways.

Why not start now?
I will lose all my friends

Why wait? Why not start being different now, right now. Be the person you always wanted to be. Change your life to what you know you should be; what you are created to be. Dare to be different! Dare to change your life. Dare to live the life you want!

About the author:

Stephen C Thomas is a minister, spiritual guide, speaker, motivator, yoga and meditation instructor, Reiki practitioner, and writer. His purpose in life is to help people create the life they were meant to have. Life change is possible!

Life Change for You is a web site designed to help you change your life. If life change is something you want, if learning about positive thinking and creating your life interest you, you can visit Stephen at http://lifechangeforu.com/

 

Before trying to master others, be sure you are the master of yourself.
When you develop a Positive Mental Attitude, you immediately set yourself apart from the crowd. You become a leader because positive thinking leads to positive action, while negative thinking leads to apathy and inaction. When you take the initiative in any situation, others will follow simply because they like to associate with people who know where they are going. In order to lead, however, you must first be willing to discipline yourself. The first rule of leadership is never to ask others to do what you are unwilling to do yourself. You can lead only by example. Being a leader requires you to work harder and longer than the others and proving you are the master of your own destiny. – Napoleon Hill

The Power is from within, the choice is yours
Gray Lawrence
UW Independent Distributor

"Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start." Nido Qubein

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Your life is going to be as good as the thoughts you think

 

Begin your day by feeling grateful. Be grateful for the bed you just slept in, the roof over your head, the carpet or floor under your feet, the running water, the soap, your shower, your toothbrush, your clothes, your shoes, the refrigerator that keeps your food cold, the car that you drive, your job, your friends. Be grateful for the stores that make it so easy to buy the things you need, the restaurants, the utilities, services, and electrical appliances that make your life effortless. Be grateful for the magazines and the books that you read. Be grateful for the chair that you sit on, and the pavement that you walk on. Be grateful for the weather, the sun, the sky, the birds, the trees, the grass, the rain, and the flowers.

Thank you, thank you, thank you! May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

 

· With every single person you come into contact, you are either giving love or you are not, and based on what you give, that is what you will receive.

· Give love to others through kindness, encouragement, support, gratitude, or any good feeling, and it comes back to you multiplied in every area of your life.

· Look for the things in a relationship more than you notice negative things and it will appear as if something incredible has happened to the other person.

· Trying to change another person, thinking you know what is best for another person, thinking you are right and another person is wrong is not giving love!

· Criticizing, blaming, complaining, nagging, or finding fault with another person is not giving love!

· You have to be happy to receive the happy versions of other people!

· The force of love presents you with a whole array of Personal Emotional Trainers, disguised as every day people, but they are all training to chose love!

· You can stick everything you love and want to you, by looking for the things you love in other people. And saying yes to those qualities with all your heart!

· You can’t talk about or hear negativity and have good feelings!

· Life is presenting every person and circumstance to you so you can choose what you love and what you don’t love. When you react to anything, you are reacting with your feelings, and as you do, you are choosing it!

· You can’t change a negative situation with bad feelings. If you keep reacting negatively , your bad feelings will magnify and multiply the negativity.

· If you’re feeling fantastic, the force of your magnetic field creates a shield that no negativity can penetrate.

· Changing the way you feel is easy compared to running around trying to change the circumstances of the outside world. Change your feelings and the outside circumstances will change!

· The more you give love and feel good, the more magnetic your field becomes and the more it expands, drawing everything and everyone you love to you!

 

Giving opens up the door to receiving. You have so many opportunities to give every day.

Give kind words. Give a smile. Give appreciation and love. Give compliments. You can give courtesy to other motorists while you are driving. You can give a smile to the car parking attendant. You can give a warm greeting to the newspaper stand person or the person who makes your coffee. You can give by allowing a stranger to go ahead of you into an elevator, and you can give by asking which floor they are going to and pressing the button for them. If someone drops something you can give a helping hand and pick it up for them. You can give warm embraces to those you love. And you can give appreciation and encouragement to everyone.

There are so many opportunities for you to give and thereby open the door to receiving.

May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

No matter where you are in your life today, no matter what age you are, no matter how impossible your circumstances appear to be, it is never too late to follow your dream, and in so doing, make the greatest discovery any human being can make; the discovery of who you really are, and why you are here on planet Earth! Once, there was a hero. Rhonda Byrne

Your life does not get better by chance but by change

 

Your Vision of the future, lies from within
Gray Lawrence
Independent Distributor

The Greatest leaders of the world were men and women of quick decision -Napoleon Hill

Trilogy of Wisdom

A positive course of Action with a Positive Attitude brings life. ~ Gray

Everything comes if a man will only wait. I have brought myself by long meditation to the conviction that a human being with a settled purpose must accomplish it, and that nothing can resist a will that will stake even existence for its fulfilment. Benjamin Disraeli

Trilogy of Wisdom

Three things to LOVE Courage ~ Gentleness ~Affectionateness

` Three things to ADMIRE Intellectual Power ~ Dignity ~ Gracefulness

Three things to HATE Arrogance ~ Cruelty ~ Ingratitude

Three things to DESPISE Meanness ~ Affectation ~ Envy

Three things to REVERENCE Religion ~ Justice ~ Self Denial

Three things to DELIGHT IN Beauty ~ Frankness ~ Freedom

Three things to WISH FOR Health ~ Friends ~ A Cheerful Spirit

Three things to PRAY FOR Faith ~ Peace ~ Purity of Heart

Three things to ESTEEM Wisdom~ Prudence ~ Firmness

Three things to LIKE Cordiality ~ Good Humour ~ Mirthfulness

Three things to AVOID Idleness ~ Loquacity ~ Flippant Testing

Three things to SUSPECT Flattery ~ Obsequiousness ~ Sudden affection

Three things to CULTIVATE Good Books ~ Good Friends ~ Good Humour

Three things to CONTEND FOR The Faith ~ Country ~ Friends

Three things to GOVERN The Tongue ~ Temper ~ Impulse

Three things to be PREPARED FOR Change ~ Decay ~ Death

There are two kinds of people:
Those who say, "I will believe it when I see it."
And those who say, "To see it, I know I must believe it."

May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

Your Vision of the future, lies from within
Gray Lawrence

Successful Networker

The Greatest leaders of the world were men and women of quick decision -Napoleon Hill

Successful networker law of attraction

Why The Law Of Attraction Fails

Wyn Nathan Davis

As a recruiter, everyday, I meet people who are making an effort to change the circumstances of their lives – some will succeed most will not.

The Law of Attraction is the concept that we attract into our lives what we think about most of the time – that thoughts are things and thinking about things (good or bad) will bring those things into our life.

We are all aware that when we decide to buy a new car or a new mobile phone that all of a sudden we see those very same objects everywhere. It seems almost magic that the car we never noticed is all of a sudden on every street. This is, of course, not magic it is simply that our conscious mind filters out 99.9% of all of the events and sensations that enter our brain. Our subconscious mind is aware of about 70,000 events per second, however, our conscious mind is aware of only about 7 events per second. We filter how we see the world and we will see what we expect. After all, there is good, bad, ugly, beautiful, failure and opportunity around us all the time. We will ‘filter’ the world we want to see.

The Law Of Attraction is a process of conducting a ‘mental trick’. If we use mantras, pictures of what we think about, or acting ‘as if’ we already have the things we want that we will change the filter and start to see the things and opportunities that we want. This is a good short-term strategy and does work for many people in changing their lives – at least in an area or two. The problem is that these changes rarely last and rarely affect enough areas of our lives to change our real life experience.

What is missing from the Law Of Attraction?

The problem with The Law Of Attraction is that consciously choosing to think a certain way does not change our subconscious and our subconscious drives most of our actions. Our subconscious mind is not really affected by our conscious thoughts but instead by our deepest values based on our past experiences.

We cannot truly change our thoughts until we truly change the way we think!

For example, for most of us choices like murder, incest, or extreme violence have no part in the way we think. When we hear of extreme acts in the news most of us have no ability to comprehend making such a choice. However, when we think about over-eating, managing money, cheating on our partners most of us can fully understand these desires or even struggle with them on a daily basis.

Until the changes in our lives that we seek – wealth, career performance, and health become the only possible choice – because the alternative seems simply impossible – we will struggle.

When you change your values the entire way you think changes – instantly. When this happens massive change is possible in your life because your world is actually, completely different. Imagine if the choice of over-eating seemed as abhorrent to you as murder? Losing weight would be easy!

To change the way you think you don’t need another book, another seminar or more time. It can happen in an instant simply by changing the way you think by first changing your values.

When a person can choose their thoughts by a process of choosing their values they instantly lose all doubt and fear and become – a mastermind.

Gray Lawrence

Ambitious & Successful Networker

Life is The Sum of All Our Choices – Albert Camus

 

Successful & Ambitious Networker Positive Attitudes work

 

 Authenticity is a collectioin of choices

 
"Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change."           -Wayne Dyer

Positive attitudes is what make’s the world go round, there in that one sentence is an extremely powerful secret for life improvements on all levels… including the level of business.
As consultant Alan Weiss quoted:  "The first sale is always to yourself…"
If you cannot make that first sale, how are you going to make any others? But wait, before we even answer that question, riddle me this: What is this that we are even "selling" to ourselves?

A guide to Network Marketing be the best at what you do.

Well, what you’re selling to yourself is clarity about what you do, for whom you do it, and why your unique approach to that doing makes you far more valuable for certain clients.
You do this, you don’t do that. You work with these folks, you don’t work with these folks. You stand for X, you stand for Y and the unique way you achieve Z is something that sets you apart from every other choice your client has.
If you’re out there wondering what the next step is, that’s not a problem, itForget all the reasons why it won't work and believe the one reason that it will  ‘s more often a symptom of a problem, which is a lack of clarity.
When you have this type of clarity, these "next steps" tend to appear with much less effort.
You could say that along with this clarity should come a commitment. A commitment to the clarity you’ve defined. When you are committed, decisions become easier.

 

Act on your own initiative, but be prepared to assume full responsibility for your acts.
One of the primary differences between those who achieve greatness in their lives and those who manage only to “get by” is that successful people learned early in life that they were responsible for their own actions. No other person can make you successful or keep you from achieving your goals. Taking the initiative means assuming a leadership role, a position that singles you out for praise — and for criticism. The good leader is the one who shares the credit for success with others and assumes full responsibility for failures or temporary setbacks. When you accept responsibility for your actions, you gain the respect of others and are well on the way to creating your own future.                                    – Napoleon Hill

Do I buy this advert? Do I market over there? Do I work with this client? The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are
These can all be difficult questions if you aren’t clear on what you’re about and for whom. With that clarity, these decisions can be made in a blink.
It’s all about clarity and direction. Do you have it? Do you know where it’s hiding for you?
For most service providers, it’s hiding right in front of your face. But due to your training, you just can’t see it.
But finding it is work worth doing. When you find that thing that sets you apart, the way you look at yourself CHANGES. And just like Wayne Dyer says, that act of changing the way you look at you actually CHANGES you. Something to think  about, do you not agree?   The funny thing is this: while we as individuals cannot always see this for ourselves; we always seem to be able to see this for others.  It takes time to think about it and agree with some honesty.

The best recommendation is the one you give yourself by rendering superior service — with the right mental attitude.
What others think of you is important, as long as it coincides with what you think of yourself. If you are recognized by others as a positive person who always makes an important contribution, you will be in demand, for there are never enough such people in any organization. Your co-workers will value you, your customers will appreciate you, and your boss will recognize and reward you if you stick with it. You may not become an overnight success, but neither will you fail instantly and permanently. Make it a habit to go the extra mile with a Positive Mental Attitude. – Napoleon Hill

I see network marketing as a way to help others with training to prevent issues above, do not take my word for it 

see what  I have hidden then below ask Sir Terry Wogan  (~networker)

Gray Lawrence

Ambitious & Successful Networker

Life is The Sum of All Our Choices – Albert Camus

 

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