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He who loses wealth loses much;

he who loses a friend loses more;

but he that loses his courage loses all.

~Miguel de Cervantes

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Your mind is your choice, not other people’s Gray

I just started thinking how happy I was; Health family and more

The right time is always when you are ready. Gray

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There’s one little corner of your life where you can make an
improvement today. Take the opportunity to do so.
There’s one little corner of the world where you can make a
difference right now. Go ahead and be the person to make
that difference.
One little corner may not seem like much. One little corner
may not appear to be worth the trouble.
Yet when you get things working well in that one little
corner, something wonderful happens. You discover how
delightful, inspiring, fulfilling and compelling the
experience of achievement can be.
And then you start looking for other little corners where
you can work the same magic. One little corner after
another, you begin to have a major positive impact.
To achieve great things requires no great effort, just a
modest effort repeated again and again. Start right now by
improving one little corner, and you’re on your way to
change the world.

Attitude and Healing go hand in hand- ray

Your Vision of the future, lies from within, words of Wisdom – Gray

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The Greatest leaders of the world were men and women of quick decision -Napoleon Hill

Energy and persistence conqer all things  Benjamin Franklin

Be Inspired by Chester Goad “Live Your Purpose”

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You come finally to believe anything you tell yourself often enough — even if it is not true.
If you repeat something over and over to yourself, your subconscious mind will eventually begin to accept it as fact. When something has been accepted as truth by your subconscious mind, it will work overtime to transform the idea into physical reality. You can take advantage of this by programming your mind to think positive thoughts. Use self-motivators or affirmations to persuade your subconscious that you are capable of doing anything you wish. Repeat the self-motivator several times a day until it becomes an automatic reaction to recall a positive phrase whenever you begin to doubt yourself. Replace “I can’t” with “I will!” Napoleon Hill

Topics: Dream, Power, Purpose

Chester GoadIf I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I’d want to pass along to others…

The God of the Universe breathed power into you. You are alive. So live. Because you have received power from the greatest Power you have the ability to overcome, to move forward, to effect change, to make a difference. Do not squander your power. Certainly, joy comes when we extend compassion and service. But sometimes. Sometimes you have to come first. We worry it’s inappropriate, selfish, or even narcissistic to ever consider putting ourselves first. For whatever reason, sometimes we relegate ourselves to the end of the line. Maybe we feel we’re not worthy. Maybe we feel undeserving. Maybe we feel ashamed. But make no mistake, you are worthy, you are deserving, because you matter.

Accept the possibility that in order to live your purpose you may need to put yourself first for a while and that’s okay. It is difficult to show compassion and strength when we refuse to value ourselves or extend compassion within our own lives. God would not have breathed the power of life into you, if you did not have great purpose. When you’re reluctant to leverage your purpose and your power to make a difference in the lives of others, you’re missing out on opportunity after opportunity, after beautiful opportunity. You matter, you are capable, and you have purpose—but are you willing?

Do not let fear or safety lull you into an icy existence devoid of ever experiencing what it feels like to live your dream or to help others accomplish their own. If you’re an architect, build your masterpiece and then help others build. If you’re an artist the canvas awaits the fruit of your imagination. Mould something, sculpt something, paint something, and then extend the brush to those around you. If you’re a speaker, take the platform, share your ideas with the world and then listen as the world speaks back.

Listen, listen, and listen some more. It is never selfish to share your gifts. After all, a gift is not a gift unless you’re giving it away. God gave you permission to dream and to live your purpose when He spoke your name, and breathed the gift of life into you. You matter.

Do not be anxious or live in fear of pursuit of your dream, and do not sentence yourself to a lifetime of regret for never having helped another human achieve something they once thought was an impossible task. Anything is possible, and you have the power to prove it, but are you willing?

When Everything Changes, Change Everything

 

“Set your sights high, the higher the better. Expect the most wonderful things to happen, not in the future but right now. Realize that nothing is too good. Allow absolutely nothing to hamper you or hold you up in any way.” Eileen Caddy 1917-2006, Author

 

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt

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 “Life is the sum of all your choices” Albert Camus

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Why the Law of Attraction Fails or does It?

All readers are leader’s, but I had a heart stopping moment on the first line, do read on.  My additions are of course in another colour to differentiate the message not by me.  Is is worth the read.

To attract wealth you must focus on the money

 

Law of attraction: Why the law of attraction fails  Wyn Nathan Davis

As a recruiter, everyday, I meet people who are making an effort to change the circumstances of their lives – some will succeed most will not.

The Law of Attraction is the concept that we attract into our lives what we think about most of the time – that thoughts are things and thinking about things (good or bad) will bring those things into our life.

We are all aware that when we decide to buy a new car or a new mobile phone that all of a sudden we see those very same objects everywhere. It seems almost magic that the car we never noticed is all of a sudden on every street. This is, of course, not magic it is simply that our conscious mind filters out 99.9% of all of the events and sensations that enter our brain. Our subconscious mind is aware of about 70,000 events per second, however, our conscious mind is aware of only about 7 events per second. We filter how we see the world and we will see what we expect. After all, there is good, bad, ugly, beautiful, failure and opportunity around us all the time. We will ‘filter’ the world we want to see.

The Law Of Attraction is a process of conducting a ‘mental trick’. If we use mantras, pictures of what we think about, or acting ‘as if’ we already have the things we want that we will change the filter and start to see the things and opportunities that we want. This is a good short-term strategy and does work for many people in changing their lives – at least in an area or two. The problem is that these changes rarely last and rarely affect enough areas of our lives to change our real life experience.

What is missing from the Law Of Attraction?

The problem with The Law Of Attraction is that consciously choosing to think a certain way does not change our subconscious and our subconscious drives most of our actions. Our subconscious mind is not really affected by our conscious thoughts but instead by our deepest values based on our past experiences.

We cannot truly change our thoughts until we truly change the way we think!

For example, for most of us choices like murder, incest, or extreme violence have no part in the way we think. When we hear of extreme acts in the news most of us have no ability to comprehend making such a choice. However, when we think about over-eating, managing money, cheating on our partners most of us can fully understand these desires or even struggle with them on a daily basis.

Until the changes in our lives that we seek – wealth, career performance, and health become the only possible choice – because the alternative seems simply impossible – we will struggle.

When you change your values the entire way you think changes – instantly. When this happens massive change is possible in your life because your world is actually, completely different. Imagine if the choice of over-eating seemed as abhorrent to you as murder? Losing weight would be easy!

To change the way you think you don’t need another book, another seminar or more time. It can happen in an instant simply by changing the way you think by first changing your values.

When a person can choose their thoughts by a process of choosing their values they instantly lose all doubt and fear and become – a mastermind.

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If you wish for a finer environment, alter your thinking right where you are. If you are working for success look at your life.                                                                     If order is the first law of the universe and it is, then it must also be reflected in physical life. Is your house in organized? Your car? Your office? Your purse or wallet. Ones personal space is a reflection of their mind, As you organise your external world you will begin to notice that you will start attracting more of the results you want Herr is to order in Your life – Mary Morrisey

There is no past or future for the law of attraction, only the present, so stop referring to your life in the past as very difficult, or full of hardship and pain, or in any other negative way. Remember that the law only operates in the present, so when you speak of your past life negatively the law is receiving your words and sending those things back to you NOW. May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

Gray Lawrence

Life is The Sum of All Our Choices – Albert Camus

 

Natural Selling lesson Four

The game of business is very much like the game of tennis. Those who fail to master the basics of serving well, usually lose. — Unknown

There is only one boss–the Customer. And he can fire anybody in the company from the chairman on down, simply by spending his money somewhere else. — Sam Walton

 

Silouette door sales

This lesson, we’re going to talk more about how to approach potential partners and customers using the magic and power of dialogue…a way of connecting with people at a deeper level than can be achieved just by telling or through conversation.

It’s based on 3 more principles of the Natural Selling Approach that we will cover in a moment.

We learned in the previous lesson that the Natural Selling Approach is a Problem Solving Exercise.

To do this you simply find out if people have the sort of problems that you can help them solve by:

1. Asking simple questions

2. Listening

3. Feeding back and responding to the answers to constantly make sure both of you are on the same track.

Doing this while suspending your agenda is the magic behind and power of dialogue. When you suspend your agenda, you allow others to openly reveal theirs without yours getting in the way.

Let’s look at this in the form of a principle… the 2nd one of four.

Principle 2. Asking the Right types of Questions at the Right Time

As you have seen, the conventional way of telling people about you, your company or your products, usually will result in rejection and objections.

It’s the Law of Giving and the Cause and Effect working against you!

So how to turn this around?

The key is not to tell, present, convince, persuade, manipulate or pressure someone to buy something or take action. It’s about asking questions and listening and effectively responding and allowing your potential partners and customers to convince themselves to change

Now, we’re not talking about manipulative or leading questions that are designed to get the answers you want to hear. If you use these questions whose answers are you likely to hear? Your own!

Whose answers and truth do you really want? Theirs!

While manipulative questions can be very powerful there are drawbacks to using them:

* People know when they are being manipulated and don’t like it

* Using them is uncomfortable for most Network Marketers and

Direct Sales People who tend to resist using them and end up

doing nothing.

* They are not effective for long term results.

While it’s possible to temporarily motivate people to do something, there is a very interesting phenomenon that takes place. After a short while they stop being motivated and stop doing what they agreed to do.

This behaviour is called passive aggression or buyer’s remorse.

You can see the effect of this when customers stop buying from you, or people drop out from your organization. This is usually because they came on board for your reasons, not theirs. This is the number one cause of the high customer and team attrition rate.

The Natural Selling Approach dramatically changes this.

The questions you use are intended to help the other person uncover and talk about the difference between what they have and what they would like based on their own inner and external values, without you having to guess or make a judgment.

After all, who has the history of what is, and has been, going on in their life, and what they want and why they want it? They do!

Small daily improvements are the key to staggering long term resultsYour potential partner or customers and you each bring a key thing to the Approach. On the one hand, they have their history and know what they want… they have the answers. You, on the other hand, know the potential of your products or income opportunity, and whether it can work for them based on the answers they give you. When you get a match, which will happen most of the time, you’ll then be able to explain your solution to them so that it all makes sense. So all you need are the right types of questions!

You also need to know when to ask them.

The Natural Selling Approach uses a "Dialogue/Conversation Framework" that explains what the types of questions are and when to use them to help you and the person you are talking with see clearly:

1. Whether they have the type of problems that your solution can help them solve

2. If they do, the depth of those problems.

3. Whether there is enough desire for them to want to do something.

Questions help people open their minds. Questions involve people. They allow people to think about their present situation, themselves and their problems.

Helping People Inspire Themselves to Change

The Natural Selling Approach is not about you persuading them, it’s about allowing people to persuade themselves as they come to see what is right for them.

While bias-free communication takes on going effort, it will help you build a This is how it works.foundation of trust with your listeners.                              — Leslie C. Aguilar

This is how it works.

As people respond to your questions they also listen to themselves. They;

1. Internalize what they say

2. Feel the discomfort of their present circumstances (and if things are not working as well as they would like) 3. Decide to make a change.

Their answers help them think about their problems and to own the idea that they want to change if their problems and internal motivation is great enough.

It gives meaning to the saying "When I say it, they can doubt me.

When they say it, it’s true."

The degree a person will change depends on two things;

1. The degree of discomfort they feel in the present moment as they talk about their present circumstances, and their;

2. Degree of their desire to move toward their dream

If you get out of your own way and listen to them, and are not hasty to come up with your solutions too quickly, they will listen to you.

Asking questions eliminates the need for you to present and learn closing and objection handling techniques. Because who eliminates all the objections in the Dialogue? They do, because they are the ones talking and revealing how they feel about their problems and internally motivating themselves to make a change.

The "Sale is Made" in the Discovering!

Learning how to ask the "Right Types of Questions at the Right Time" will prepare a person to be receptive to your solutions.

Before you speak THINKEssentially, they "sell themselves" on the idea of wanting to change and when you offer the idea of a potential solution, they are receptive to it.

The "sale" then is actually made during the uncovering and revealing a person’s needs, where they talk and listen to themselves into changing.

It’s when you have asked enough questions, responded appropriately to their answers, discovered there is a need to make a change and that the other person is open to changing, that you propose you might know of a solution that might help them.

The Natural Selling Approach can take two minutes or it can two years! It really depends on the other person and where they are in their lives.

One thing is guaranteed. If you don’t rush them and put your Personal Agenda on the shelf and let it guide you not manipulate you, if there is a sale to be made, you will make it every time.

Next we will take a close look at the other most powerful communication tool available to you – Listening.

The Secret

There is a difference between feeling gratitude and appreciation for something, and feeling attachment to something. Appreciation and gratitude are states of pure love, while attachment contains fear – fear of losing or not having what you are attached to. When it comes to something you want in your life, appreciation and gratitude attracts, and attachment pushes away. If you are feeling afraid that you will not get what you want, or losing what you have, then you have attachment.  To remove the attachment, keep shifting yourself into a state of appreciation and gratitude, until you can feel that the fear has gone. May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

Exercises:

1. Have you ever experienced "Buyers Remorse"? Think about the situation and what happened. Did you ever do business with that person or organization again?

2. Start a Dialogue with a stranger or someone you know by asking them a question and continue asking them questions. Remove your Personal Agenda.

Just listen and ask questions based on the answers you get to your previous questions, or on something that comes to your mind.

Don’t talk about you or your ideas, or make comments. Just gently focus on asking questions. If you’re asked a question, briefly answer it and follow your answer with a question of your own.

See how "deep" you go exploring a particular issue. Observe your own feelings and how the other person is feeling.

Your thoughts ceate your future

To thine own self be true; to your success…

"Energy is the essence of life. Every day you decide how you’re going to use it by knowing what you want and what it takes to reach that goal, and by maintaining focus." Oprah Winfrey

The Power is from within, the choice is yours
Gray Lawrence
Successful Networker


"Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start." Nido Qubein

Successful Networker what is your drive to enjoy life

key lock in flowersDo what makes your life worth living, hardships may come and go it depends upon how you read them and drink them with your favourite tipple.  Just put them away for ever! and unlock your heart and inner sanctuary..

“When you can’t mend what is broken at the centre of a friend’s life…you learn a deeper truth, how to accept the unacceptable and, however slowly, move along together.” —  Catherine Calvert

Don’t aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.”  David Frost

enjoy your life-do what you love-make a difference-what is most important to you

What is available for you to learn and read DAILY are quotes, no matter whom you are we all need that icing on the cake to get us by with the struggles as we grow and learn in life.  It mainly comes down to finances, we need it require it but HOW do we get it??

Time is an issue for us all life goes so fast we forget to stop and stare..do this and the mind will clear leading to the following that requires tour undivided attention, for you and your family:  

How will I find the money?
How will I find the time?
How will I learn this or that skill?

But as you’ll see, it’s not the “how” that is important for you to know; it’s the “what.”

To see and learn is a lesson in itself

The Pursuit of Happiness   http://youtu.be/_xcZTtlGweQ

Do What You Love and Enjoy Your Life

Why is it so important you do what you love? A friend shared a true story that illustrates the importance of doing what you enjoy perfectly. It went like this:

A young girl who collected autographs of famous people was at the airport waiting to board her plane when she saw a crowd of people standing around a small man in a white robe.

She knew this man had to be someone well known because of the large crowd around him. She went up to one of the people standing nearby and asked who the man was. She was told, “That’s Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, a great Saint from the Himalayas.”

The girl excitedly ran up to Maharishi and immediately asked for his autograph. Maharishi took her pen and paper, looked her straight in the eyes, and said, “I will give you something much more important than my autograph.” And on the piece of paper he wrote one word.

Enjoy

Be greatful for each moment and be happyWhat was the message Maharishi was conveying? The whole purpose of life is to enjoy and do what you love. When you are not able to enjoy your life you are missing your life’s purpose and your chance to make a difference in this world.

Again, what’s so important about enjoying what you are doing? Think about all the greatest people on the planet, past and present. Every one of them, without exception, loved what they did or are now doing. Every single one of them. Their lives may not have been easy, they certainly faced challenges, and yet, they loved what they were doing.

Now think about the people you know who are truly happy. Don’t they love what they are doing in their lives? Maybe there are some parts of their lives that are challenging, but when it comes down to it, they love their lives, how they spend their days, and who they spend their lives with, don’t they?

Find what is Most Important To You and Make a Difference

For us, it’s obvious. To have absolute success in any area, the most important prerequisite must be that you have a passion and find what is most important to you in order to           enjoy your life.

When you face your inner life and bring it to the surface, youhands round heart can examine and clarify what is most important to you and do what you love. It is the magical key that will unlock those forgotten dreams that wait patiently in your heart for the day when you are finally ready to say, “I am here to make a difference and the time is now!”

This could be in your head all year round not just for the season

“Spring has finally arrived, and with it, renewed hope and a fresh start.” — Oprah

When you clarify what it is you love most, and what is most important to you, you are then able to enjoy your life and make a difference.

Discover your true calling, and begin living the life you were destined for.

Positive  affirmation writting blockDo enjoy your life? Are you living out your passions every day? Passion is the foundation of success in every area of life. If you’re unclear about what your passions are, you’re much less likely to become successful. This step-by-step program will help you gain absolute clarity on your passions so you can start living passionately each and every day.

 

Opportunity passes us by on a daily basis for the “How”  all you have to do is stop grab it and lead, this link may be for you it may not but enjoy

One of my own messages is really from all the Positive Information I read that is available to all but through this wonderful world of the clever and famous, i have to admit I like this one not because it is my own it just says a lot:

“ The yellow brick road “IS” paved with gold, all you have to do is open the right door in your mind and take the first step.”                    I hope you like it  feel free to use it please it is sent with open arms Gray

Gray Lawrence
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