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Are you out of control..

"Happiness cannot be travelled to, owned, earned or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude." Denis Waitley

 

It’s completely normal to feel out of control when something goes wrong in your life.
In fact, it’s probably safe to say that it’s not normal to feel completely at peace when something unfortunate happens.
But even though it feels like all the hard work you’ve put in, all the sacrifices you’ve made, and all the life you’ve lived has done nothing to prevent you from experiencing tragedy, there is always hope for those who are willing to fight to

"When we feel significant emotional highs and happiness for what we have in our lives, we effectively send out a signal to the universe that we want more of what we are experiencing." Dr. Steve G. Jones

take control of their lives once again with hope for a better day.

If you’ve been struggling with the difficulties of life, it’s time to open your mind to a few new ideas that will help you take control of your life, fill your life with positive energy, and help you recover from your negative experiences, one day at a time.

Bad things can happen in the blink of an eye or they can occur progressively over a long period of time. One moment you are happily smiling at your fortune and everything good in your life, and the next moment something unexpected happens and you wonder how you are going to pick up the pieces of your life that have been left behind by a devastating series of events.

"The reason why it is so important to be in control of your thoughts is because your thoughts shape who you are and your perspective on life." Frank Mangano

It’s completely normal to feel out of control when something goes wrong in your life. In fact, it’s probably safe to say that it’s not normal to feel completely at peace when something unfortunate happens. But even though it feels like all the hard work you’ve put in, all the sacrifices you’ve made, and all the life you’ve lived has done nothing to prevent you from experiencing tragedy, there is always hope for those who are willing to fight to take control of their lives once again with hope for a better day.

If you’ve been struggling with the difficulties of life, it’s time to open your mind to a few new ideas that will help you take control of your life, fill your life with positive energy, and help you recover from your negative experiences, one day at a time.

Make it a Priority to Serve Others

Be a leader not a followerIt seems like every time something bad happens in my life, everyone tells me to forget about myself and go find someone else that needs my help. When I first began trying this technique, I felt frustrated, sorry for myself, and absolutely no motivation to lift others burdens when my life seemed so horrible. Over time my opinion changed, and now I look forward to helping others whenever I get the chance, especially if I’m in the middle of a rough patch in my life. There is just something about helping others that seems to take your problems away. You begin to focus more on loving others, and less on your own misfortunes.

Learn What the Universe Has in Store For You

Whether we want to admit it or not, there are bigger forces at play in the Universe than just ourselves. Sometimes you may not think experiencing a natural disaster, the death of a loved one, or prolonged unemployment will provide you with any benefit at all, but it’s entirely possible that the Universe is preparing you for something much bigger, a greater life responsibility than even you can comprehend at this point in time. If you think that’s the case, try to find out what that purpose and responsibility is, and seek after it.

Enjoy the Adventure of Your Life

Your life is your story and the venture ahead of you..Despite what others may believe, there is no reason to fear the future. If you look at life as one big adventure, you’ll realize that life will provide you with twists and turns that you won’t expect—some of them will be happy, and others might be sad, but that’s the best part of living. If you knew everything would always work out the way you want it to, you would get bored of your life. The greatest joy I’ve experienced in life is triumphing when all the odds were stacked against me and I was facing great adversity. It made achieving my dreams and goals all the sweeter, because I alone knew what I had to overcome to get where I wanted to be. The same will be true of you if you enjoy the ride of life, with all of its speed bumps and stop lights.

"Whatever it is you are achieving vibrational harmony with is what you are living. If you ever want to know what the vibrational content of your outpouring is, just look at the manifesting around you, because the manifesting around you is always a perfect vibrational match to the vibration that is dominant within you." Abraham Hicks

Your Vision of the future, lies from within

Gray Lawrence

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The greatest freedom is to be responsible. -Lazaris

 

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He who loses wealth loses much;

he who loses a friend loses more;

but he that loses his courage loses all.

~Miguel de Cervantes

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The right time is always when you are ready. Gray

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There’s one little corner of your life where you can make an
improvement today. Take the opportunity to do so.
There’s one little corner of the world where you can make a
difference right now. Go ahead and be the person to make
that difference.
One little corner may not seem like much. One little corner
may not appear to be worth the trouble.
Yet when you get things working well in that one little
corner, something wonderful happens. You discover how
delightful, inspiring, fulfilling and compelling the
experience of achievement can be.
And then you start looking for other little corners where
you can work the same magic. One little corner after
another, you begin to have a major positive impact.
To achieve great things requires no great effort, just a
modest effort repeated again and again. Start right now by
improving one little corner, and you’re on your way to
change the world.

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Your Vision of the future, lies from within, words of Wisdom – Gray

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The Greatest leaders of the world were men and women of quick decision -Napoleon Hill

Energy and persistence conqer all things  Benjamin Franklin

A Little Corner Of Greatness

A Little Corner of Greatness

The opportunity is yours to improve YOU! it is worth the trouble, I know!!

There’s one little corner of your life where you can make an improvement today. Take the opportunity to do so.

With all its sham and drudgery it is still a beautiful worldThere’s one little corner of the world where you can make a difference right now. Go ahead and be the person to make that difference.
One little corner may not seem like much. One little corner may not appear to be worth the trouble.
Yet when you get things working well in that one little corner, something wonderful happens. You discover how delightful, inspiring, fulfilling and compelling the experience of achievement can be.
And then you start looking for other little corners where you can work the same magic. One little corner after another, you begin to have a major positive impact.
To achieve great things requires no great effort, just a modest effort repeated again and again. Start right now by improving one little corner, and you’re on your way to change the world.

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Gray Lawrence

Life is The Sum of All Our Choices – Albert Camus

 

 

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Your life is a learning process – you can only become wiser from learning. Sometimes you might have to attract making a painful mistake to learn something important, but after the mistake you have far greater wisdom. Wisdom cannot be bought with money – it can only be acquired through living life. With wisdom comes: strength, courage, knowing, and an ever-increasing peace. May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

You Can Now Make Objections and Rejection a Thing of the Past!

Summary and Recap what has been covered.

We’ve seen why conventional sales techniques of telling your story, talking about your solutions or presenting to soon, handling objections and "closing" can cause objections and rejection.

The key to success is keeping company whith people who uplift youIn contrast, the Natural Selling Approach is all about coming from an inner place of stillness, calm and understanding, using your Personal Agenda to guide you and not manipulate you using dialogue. You do this by focusing on your Purpose of merely discovering whether there is a problem that you might have an answer for.

In doing so you allow the other person to motivate themselves to look at your solution if it’s appropriate, by listening to them and letting them listen to themselves as they internally think about and process what they are saying.

The four principles of The Natural Selling Approach are:

1. The Purpose of a Business is Helping Other People Solve Their Problems.

2. Asking the Right Types of Questions at the Right Time

3. Listening to What is Being Meant, Not Just What Is Being Said

4. Feeding Back What You Think You Heard.

The Natural Selling Approach is one of a Problem Solving Exercise not a Persuasion Exercise. You use the Magic and Power of Dialogue to help people discover for themselves whether they have any problems you can help them solve.

By knowing what types of questions to ask, how to listen and how to feedback you remove your anxiety by taking the focus off you and putting it where it matters – on other people.

Graph 2 men salesWhen you align yourself with these principles and consistently use the Natural Selling Approach in your professional and personal life, you will discover you will have the capacity to help more people in less time and with less effort to inspire themselves to change and be interested in listening to what you have to say and taking a closer look at your solutions.

Point to Remember: If there isn’t a problem to be solved, will you have lost a sale? Of course not! There was never a sale to be made in the first place.

If there isn’t a sale to be made you can either change the conversation or graciously bow out so you can quickly move on to other opportunities without feeling rejected.

If there is a problem to be solved however, you’ll uncover it and know precisely how to customize your solution in a way that makes perfect sense to people.

What’s more, you’ll completely eliminate your fear and anxiety when talking with people about your products and business. Why?

It’s because you now have a different initial focus. You are no longer using or thinking about having to use conventional selling techniques, tricks or mind games.

The big question is, are you really "selling" (in the conventional sense) when using The 4 Principles of The Natural Selling Approach? No you’re not! All you’re doing is helping people discover for themselves whether they want to replace what they have with what they want. Most importantly you’re also discovering their level of desire to do so.

You don’t have to use techniques when you know how to help people inspire and decide for themselves to change!

Another point. Have you ever thought of yourself as a feature of your products, Income Opportunity or company? Of course you are!

In fact, you’re the ONLY unique feature!

If people buy you because you appear to understand them and what they are about, what do you think that does to the value of you and everything you represent? Including your solutions? It soars!

Asking the right types of questions at the right time, and listening with the intent to hear, understand, and solve other people’s problems creates tremendous value in you and what you represent.

When you do this, people can’t help but be attracted to you and want to listen how you might be able to help them with your solutions! They can’t help it because everyone (including you) is attracted to people who really understand them. What’s more, they will be much more likely to do business with you!

The Next Step

helping handAt this point, have you discovered if The Natural Selling Approach resonates with your inner truth? Is it in alignment with your core values about respecting and serving others and/or about the way you want to be treated by others? Have The 4 Principles of the Natural Selling Approach caused you to reaffirm, reconsider or change what you thought selling and your business is all about?

If it has, ask yourself these questions…

* What if I could make this work for myself and be able to talk

with anyone, anywhere, anytime about my business?

* What if I could eliminate my fear and anxiety about talking with people?

* What if I could totally eliminate rejection and objections,

not by using techniques, mind games and mental tricks, but by talking with people in a different way?

* What if I could be successful early and significantly increase my success rate?

* What if I could create meaningful and long-lasting relationships with new people?

* What if I could strengthen my existing relationships?

* If I could do all of this, what difference would it make in

Your mental attitude is the most dependable key to your personality.
Your view of yourself will greatly influence how others perceive you. If you are a confident, cheerful, positive person, your co-workers, friends, and family will be attracted to your personality. If you are unhappy, negative, and always complaining about your situation, others will be repelled. Even when at times you don’t feel very happy, by forcing yourself to behave in a positive fashion, you will find that you soon feel genuinely upbeat, because your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between an artificial emotion and the real thing. When you behave positively, you will positively influence everyone around you — including yourself. – Napoleon Hill

my professional and personal life?

Well, you can do this… ALL of it. And, you can do in your own style and with your own personality… not someone else’s, but your own!

So if you want a blueprint of how to make this work and for anyone else you bring into your team, of if your present blueprint isn’t working for you, now you have the opportunity to change it.

You’re invited to take the next step to achieve what you want.

Obviously, you are participating in this course for your reasons.

If one of those reasons is because you are not getting the results you want, here are a couple of questions you might want to ask yourself:

1. Are my present feelings about my current situation uncomfortable enough that I’m sufficiently motivated to do something different than what I’ve been doing?

2. Does Natural Selling offer a solution to my specific problem that makes perfect sense to me?

If you answered, "No", that’s perfectly okay. However, if you realize that the blueprint for your business simply isn’t working for you and you want to exchange it for something that does, I invite you to take the next step to achieve what you want in your business and life.

After all, will anything in your life and the lives of others change if you don’t? Highly unlikely, and definitely not until you take appropriate action that makes sense to you. Whatever action you decide is best for you – DO IT NOW!

"Just like you are in charge of your thoughts and emotions, you are in charge of your visual field and imagination. Use it to help create positive thoughts and send positive vibrations to the universe." Frank Mangano

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt

Gray Lawrence Successful Networker

"Life is the sum of all your choices" Albert Camus

Successful Networker Success is up to you and your thoughts Be different

 

If you want to take your mission in life to the Next Level, look inside. Abolish your fears and raise your commitment level to the point of no return, and I guarantee you that the champion within will propel you toward victory.~ Olympian Bruce Jenner

 
How to become “SUCCESSFUL”

The recently had a discussion with myself..I have been extremely successful in my careers over the last 40 years, with a high rank in the armed forces SO why is it not working for me now? Being successful!! I am a networker and a very good one; with many MLM’s tried and tested in the past (reasons vary for leaving or not continuing)  For some reason it is not working as well as my long established career.   What can I do about it?  The training within the MLM I am now in Utility Warehouse is far better and up to date than any other MLM I have ever know and for most parts it is free,, there is online and classroom training so why is it not working!  It seems it is my faith in myself!

Does this sound familiar are you like me working hard or at least trying to and not getting anywhere or anything done except going dizzy!  Has your confidence left the room mine has, on more than one occasion even though I did earn an income in the past. This is probably something that, if we are truly honest, we have all suffered at one time or another.  So how do you ensure you can be successful?

Faith is not simply a patience which passively suffers until the storm is pastEverything comes down, in the end, to state of mind.  Yes, circumstances can help or hinder.  Sometimes the circumstances in which we may find ourselves can be dire and it can seem impossible to succeed.  We look around and see nobody else in our circle is succeeding either.  It has to be the fault of our environment!  But although those circumstances may be placing apparently insurmountable obstacles in front of us, the real key is what is inside, not what is outside.  We see the obstacles and immediately something inside says "it is impossible – I will never succeed!"  And you know what?  As long as you allow that inner demon to go unchallenged it will be right.  This is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

That is the basic underlying principle of most success systems.  Change the voices within.  Change them properly, not just superficially.  Change them permanently, not just for a day or two while you are trying out a new system.  Focus them on achieving your goal and achieve it you will.

How can you change those voices?  How can you eliminate the defeatist, miserable voice that has been with you since early childhood telling you "it won’t work", "you can’t do it", "you aren’t good enough"?  How can you turn it around so your inner, non-stop chatter is full of "that’s great!", "you’re getting there!", "you have what it takes!" instead?

The first step is to look at your resources and be realistic.  Many other Law of Attraction gurus may disagree with me here and tell you that whatever it is you want to achieve you CAN achieve it if you only focus on it, visualize your success properly, and truly believe it.

Well, yes, they are right.  It IS possible to achieve anything if you are able to do those three things:

  1. have a clear, smart goal (written down and in more than one place) http://youtu.be/j7hBoa75YRs
  2. visualize achieving it whilst basking in the positive emotions this creates
  3. believe with every grain of your being that on another plane you have already achieved it and your only task now is to bring that already successful achievement down into this plane.

Reading this paragraph again, you will find it is the master key to success.  The answers you seek never come when the mind is busy but when it is still      But look again at the very last essential component.  Believe.  If you do not have that solid, unshakeable belief then all the rest is just window dressing.  If your goal is unrealistic your subconscious will know this (even though many gurus will try to tell you otherwise) and it will resist your every attempt to believe.

Paradoxically, being realistic does not mean limiting yourself to far less than you really want to achieve.  I would view realism here as a recognition of the fourth dimension that currently constrains us all – time.

Vision signThe enormously successful inventor, business magnate and philanthropist, Bill Gates, once said "most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years."  So do not set yourself a short term goal that you know in your heart of hearts you are unlikely to achieve in the time you have given yourself.  By all means set that seemingly unachievable desire as your long term goal, but then focus on what you can do NOW which is one step towards it and which does not seem completely impossible.

You are the only person who can be in control and change the way you are thinking.                 " Dr. Steve G. Jones

Once you are certain you have chosen that short term goal wisely, visualize how you will feel when you have achieved it.  Let that feeling permeate your whole being.  See how wonderful that feeling is!  Know that you HAVE achieved it, and bask in the feeling that generates within you.  Start noting down the differences it makes.  You HAVE achieved it, and now your role is simply to recognize this whilst at the same time taking the steps necessary to make it a reality in this plane as well as the plane above where it is already a reality.

Dreams express what your soul is telling you let it outIf you tackle your dreams and goals in this way, drawing on the immense power of belief but not at the same time putting obstacles in the way of that belief (obstacles such as being completely unrealistic!) you WILL succeed.

Once you have taken this vital first step, look around for the tools that will help you reach your goal faster.  There are many such tools out there.  Some are great, some mediocre, and some don’t really work at all. 

I never see failure as failure, but as the path I will not take in the further journey towards my greatness.

Gray Lawrence Successful Networker

We are still masters of our fate. We are still captains of our souls. Winston Churchill

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