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RE: The chaos theory of success

Success is a messy business.
I'm going to succeed because I am crazy enough to think I can.You can have a good idea of what success looks like for you, but you may have no idea how to get there.
Over time, the route may present itself to you. Maybe you get a few steps at a time, maybe just one.
The fact is, no one knows how to "get" there. A lot of people act like they know, but what they really know is how THEY got there, not how YOU’RE going to get there.
You can still learn from those folks of course, but you don’t want to fall into the trap of thinking they can "deliver you" to the Promise Land. You’re the one that has to do that.
As I’ve gotten more experience in business, it’s astounding how much I don’t know. It’s even more astounding just how much is completely out of my control. You can either be a cocky jerk and ignore this truth, or you can be confident enough in yourself to just accept it and go with the flow.
It’s kind of like how music was. The more you learned, the more you realized how much you had to learn.
That’s why some of the greatest musicians I ever encountered were often the most humble. They knew they’d never "get there." They were in awe of the magic and mystery of the path they were on.
They were there because they loved the journey.
But they were not audacious enough to think they had it all mapped out–or that they could map it out for someone else. They just took one step at a time and never stopped.
What I know about business is that we have complete control over the inputs. We can control what we do. What comes out the other end is anyone’s guess.
I was on the phone with a client yesterday discussing a marketing sequence we created. There are a bunch of moving parts and they are working.
But good luck trying to paint lines from one input directly to a result. Our MINDS would like things to be that simple, but it doesn’t work that way. Teach encourage instruct mentor etc
In this situation, we’re using direct marketing to create results… indirectly. Kind of funny when you think about it.
The recipe works, but you can’t point to any one ingredient and give it the award for doing the heavy lifting.
And so it goes. The best and highest use of your time in your business is to focus on that which you control. The rest isn’t deserving of your energy.
In the next issue of The Rainmaker Letter, shipping in just a few days, I’m going deep into the science behind learning to control that thing in your life and business that’s responsible for everything that comes your way. It’s one of the biggest and most powerful leverage points we have. And the good news is that we can actually control it.

In youth we learn . . . In age we understand. Stan Billue

Gray Lawrence
Ambitious Networker
Success doesn’t come to you – you go to it. — Marva Collins

Successful Networker The truth is Simple

Giving opens up the door to receiving. You have so many opportunities to give every day.                                                                                                      Give kind words. Give a smile. Give appreciation and love. Give compliments. You can give courtesy to other motorists while you are driving. You can give a smile to the car parking attendant. You can give a warm greeting to the newspaper stand person or the person who makes your coffee. You can give by allowing a stranger to go ahead of you into an elevator, and you can give by asking which floor they are going to and pressing the button for them. If someone drops something you can give a helping hand and pick it up for them. You can give warm embraces to those you love. And you can give appreciation and encouragement to everyone.  There are so many opportunities for you to give and thereby open the door to receiving. May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

Have you ever noticed that two people can confront the same circumstances with very different reactions? This is a matter of attitude and nothing else. Freedom is being able to say, “Rich or poor, alone or with a mate, physically healthy or not, employed or laid off, I believe that peace of mind is possible.”
We have all experienced what it is like to be having a perfectly fine day and have a situation or crisis arise that sends us into a tailspin. It may be something small like a traffic jam making us late, or something more severe like the loss of a job. Our response can seem automatic.
Though at first it may be difficult to accept, freedom depends on recognizing that you’re not upset because of what occurred, you are upset because of how you perceive the situation. Key to Attitudinal Healing is recognizing that you are not a victim of the world.
Another way of saying this is: There is absolutely nothing in the world that has the power to ruin your day. If you are upset, it is because you have directed your mind to be so. Initially these truths can be hard to accept because you have become so accustomed to giving your power away. Every time you blame another person for your unhappiness you are giving your power away. Stop blaming and start healing.

How you perceive a situation will determine your experience and your reaction. Let’s imagine that you have a favourite coffeehouse that you frequent. The staff knows your name and always has a warm and friendly greeting as you walk through the door. An extremely grumpy woman whom you have never seen before serves you this particular morning. She appears preoccupied rather than caring about you or what she is doing. As she pours your hot coffee a good portion spills in your lap. Despite your jumping in shock, no apology follows. Your experience is anger: both toward the waitress and the owner, Joe, for hiring such an incompetent person. Then, a friend of yours at the next booth says, “Isn’t it great that Joe hired her!”
“Great! Are you out of your mind? She just spilled hot coffee in my lap and walked away,” you reply with your best indignant voice.
“Oh, you didn’t hear the story?” your friend whispers.
This is your time to step up to the plate 
Your vision is in Your Mind
“What story?” you angrily reply, still drying off your new slacks, wondering how you will go through the day looking as though you wet your pants.
“Yeah, Joe didn’t know her from Adam. He read in the paper that her husband had died last month in a car accident. Apparently her husband’s health insurance stopped, and she was looking for another job in order to pay for her sixteen-year-old son’s chemotherapy for leukaemia,” your friend responds.
Now, you still have hot coffee in your crotch, but are you still angry? Unlikely. The only thing that shifted was your perception and attitude. Through discovering a reason to be compassionate, your entire experience changed—and there are always reasons to be compassionate.
An important part of healing (i.e., letting go of fear) is developing compassion. Instead of going out in the world and finding plenty of reasons to be upset, go out and discover reasons to extend love. There are thousands of reasons waiting for you right now. A helpful thought to remember is that a miracle is nothing more than allowing an old grievance to become a current compassion.
If you ever run short on reasons to be compassionate, remember there is always one good reason: It makes you feel better than anything else you could do.  Your life is Chosen by you, no one else!  Therefore make the right decisions..Start Your Own Business and be FREE!! 
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Gray Lawrence
Successful & Ambitious Networker
Your vision is in Your Mind

Successful & Ambitious Networker Comparison plus Guru’s equals Creativity

Everything you want is outside your Comfort Zone. Stan Billue

Do All gurus go to heaven?

I have this habit that, over the years, would have been nice NOT to have. You might refer to it as, the Guru Syndrome.
The way it works is really simple.
Someone shows up on my life or business radar that seems to have it all together. At the very least, they have some of the things I want in my own life.
At that point, my eyes tend to get covered over by these special glasses that anoint that individual as THE answer to all of my problems.
From that point on, I go through my life disconnected from reality. It’s like my clarity has a filter on it created by my perception of this individual.

Comparison is the thief of creativityYou can do this with friends, colleagues, business gurus and a long list of folks in between.
I realize now that doing this, putting people on these high pedestals, is just another example of how you "give your power" away to other people. I was highly trained in that skill over the years. And despite my best efforts, there are still remnants of the virus lurking here and there.

 
No one can tell you what to do. That’s your job to figure out. Yes you can get advice and request counsel from people who have skills and/or experience you don’t yet have, but that’s not a substitute for your own critical thinking and decision making abilities. You never want to disengage those.
As author Michael Brown says, "No one is coming to save you." When you work with clients, it’s easy to think this client or that client is going to change your life. The day you give up that false hope is the day you begin to take true responsibility for your own life.

It is not what we give but what we share

Send the gurus off to heaven and give them some peace. Then get back in the driver’s seat of your own life and Network Marketing business where you belong.


Don’t waste your mental powers in wishes. Don’t dissipate your energies by trying to satisfy every whim. Concentrate on doing something really worthwhile.

Gray Lawrence  

Successful & Ambitious Networker

Success doesn’t come to you – you go to it. — Marva Collins

Successful Networker Being Authentic

Be aware of the big difference between inspired action and activity. Activity comes from the brain-mind and is rooted in disbelief and lack of faith – you are taking action to "make" your desire happen. Inspired action is allowing the law to work through you and to move you.

Activity feels hard. Inspired action feels wonderful. May the joy be with you,

Rhonda Byrne

All that we love deeply comes part of usHow often do you not say or do something because you’re worried about how it’ll be perceived? For most of us, myself included, this happens more often than we’d like to admit.
We live in a culture that is starving for authenticity. We want our leaders, our co-workers, our family members, our friends and everyone else we interact with to tell us the truth and to be themselves. Most importantly, we want to have the personal freedom and confidence to say, do and be who we really are without worrying so much about how we appear to others and what they might think or say about us.

It is not enough to know the principles in The Secret – you must DO them, unceasingly, every single day. You must LIVE the principles. Step by step you will become the master of your thoughts and feelings, and the master of your life.   There is nothing more important than this, because your whole future life relies on you. May the joy be with you,
Rhonda Byrne

Sadly, however, even though we may say we want to live in a way that is true toPeople suffer because they  are caought in their views release them and suffer no more our deepest passions, beliefs, and desires, most of us don’t. It’s not that easy. We’ve been taught by our parents, teachers, spouses, friends, co-workers, politicians, the media and others that it’s more important to be liked and to fit in than it is to be who we truly are. In addition, many of us assume that who we are is not good enough and therefore we’re constantly trying to fix ourselves or to act like others who we think are better than us.
However, as the famous 19th-century author and poet Oscar Wilde so brilliantly stated:

"Be yourself—everyone else is already taken."

No matter where you are in your life today, no matter what age you are, no matter how impossible your circumstances appear to be, it is never too late to follow your dream, and in so doing, make the greatest discovery any human being can make; the discovery of who you really are, and why you are here on planet Earth! Once, there was a hero. Rhonda Byrne

 

Gray Lawrence

Successful Networker

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"Forget mistakes. Forget failure. Forget everything except what you’re going to do now and do it. Today is your lucky day. -Will Durant

Successful Networker be Inspired by LaTersa Blakely

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Success is achieved by developing our strengths, not by eliminating our weaknesses". – Marilyn vos Savant

"Change is inevitable, growth is intentional." – Glenda Cloud

 

Use Your Pain to Get the Life You Want

LaTersa BlakelyIf I could share 500 words to inspire, this is the important wisdom I’d want to pass along to others…

Allow your pain to become your message!

We all have a past and there is nothing you can do about it. You can’t turn back the hands of time. What you can do is take the lessons that you’ve learned and pass them on to someone else.

Your past does not dictate your future. Allow what happened to you in the past to make you a better person. Instead of looking back in your past with regrets, think of what you gained and be willing to use them to make your life better.

Your life is a learning process – you can only become wiser from learning. Sometimes you might have to attract making a painful mistake to learn something important, but after the mistake you have far greater wisdom. Wisdom cannot be bought with money – it can only be acquired through living life. With wisdom comes: strength, courage, knowing, and an ever-increasing peace. May the joy be with you, Rhonda Byrne

Remember that you will not receive a testimony without going through a test. In life there will always be trials and tribulations but it should allow you to reach a higher level in your life.

Everybody has a past or something terrible that has happened to them, but  in every situation, you can allow it to break you or make you a better person. Sometimes, it may cause you to make a few detours in life, but your destiny is never tied to your past. You have to just go through it. It will not be an easy one, but I promise you, the journey will be well worth it.

From The Secret Daily Teachings….The process of creation is the same for all things, whether you want to bring something to you or remove something negative from your life.

If you have a habit you wish to break, or anything negative you wish to remove from your life, you must focus on what you want. That means you visualize and imagine yourself in that negative-free state right now. Imagine yourself in as many scenes as you possibly can where the negative situation is completely absent. Imagine yourself happy and free. Eliminate any picture from your mind of you with the negative situation. Just imagine yourself in the state you want to be in, and feel that you are that, right now.

May the joy be with you,  Rhonda Byrne

I know some of you right now are wanting to start your own business, go back to school, or do something extra-ordinary with your life, but you don’t do it because you fear that people will find out about your past. So, instead of you letting go of your pain or your past, you stay stuck at a dead end job because you lack the courage to do what’s really in your heart.

At the core of your attraction is your wellbeingWhat you can do is look your pain or past dead in the face and let it know that you are not afraid of it and acknowledge it for what it is. You will allow yourself to be free to move forward. Holding onto the past will only paralyze you and keep you stuck in the past. You will not be able to write a new chapter in your life until you let go of the old one.

What I have learned that doesn’t matter is that you can’t be consumed with what “they” say and worry about how others view you. At the end of the day, you have to be happy with you and the decisions you make, not the next person. So many people get stuck because they put most of their focus, time and energy on what others think about them instead of being true to themselves.

Happiness is here step inside the circleWhat many fail to realize is that it is usually not about you, so don’t take it personal. Allow your pain to become your message and share it with the world so that others can have hope and know that they too can live beyond their past and step into their greatness.

 

 

"Whether you think you can or can’t, either way you are right." – Henry Ford

Gray Lawrence
Ambitious Networker

The time is always right to do what is right." Martin Luther King, Jr.

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